This might sound like one of those tiny details you don’t need to worry about — until your wedding day arrives and suddenly you’re standing there thinking, “Wait… what do I do with my hands?”
As someone who’s worked in the Toronto wedding industry for years as a photographer and farmer-florist, I’ve seen this come up at almost every wedding. The good news? Holding your bridal bouquet beautifully is simple once you know a few easy tips.
Hold It Lower Than You Think
The most common mistake I see is brides holding their bouquet too high, almost up at chest level. For photos (and comfort), your bouquet should sit right around your belly button or slightly lower.
This creates a more relaxed posture, elongates your body, and keeps the focus on you — not just the flowers.
Relax Your Arms and Shoulders
Wedding nerves are real, especially during the ceremony. Take a deep breath and let your shoulders drop. Your elbows don’t need to be locked or stiff.
A gentle bend in your arms helps you look calm and natural in photos, even if your heart is racing.
Angle the Bouquet Forward
Most bridal bouquets are designed to be seen from the front. Instead of holding it flat against your body, tilt the top of the bouquet slightly forward so the blooms face outward.
This small angle makes a big difference in photos, especially during the walk down the aisle and ceremony close-ups.
Two Hands Is Totally Fine
I often get asked if you have to hold your bouquet with one hand. The answer? Absolutely not.
For the ceremony, two hands on the bouquet is classic, elegant, and steady — especially helpful if you’re nervous or your bouquet has a bit of weight to it. During portraits, your photographer may guide you into one-handed or relaxed poses.
During the Ceremony
When you’re standing at the altar, hold your bouquet low and centred. This keeps your dress visible and avoids covering any important details like beading or lace.
And a quick Toronto-specific note: if you’re getting married outdoors (hello, wind off the lake), holding your bouquet securely with two hands can save you from any unexpected flower flips.
Trust Your Photographer (and Florist)
Toronto wedding photographers and florists work together more than you might realize. Your florist likely designed your bouquet with photos in mind, and your photographer will gently remind you where to place it if needed.
You don’t have to think about this all day — just remember the basics and let your team guide you.
Final Thought
On your wedding day, no one is judging how you’re holding your bouquet. The most important thing is that you feel present, grounded, and comfortable.
A relaxed bride always photographs beautifully — bouquet and all.
