I’ve photographed quite a few elopements over the years—and let me tell you, they’re some of the most heartfelt and adventurous weddings I’ve ever witnessed. I’ve seen brides hike up rocky paths in heels, scramble to find shelter during a sudden downpour, and laugh through muddy hems and windswept hair. The intimacy of it all is unforgettable—but so is the unpredictability.
Whether you're heading to a quiet conservation area, the edge of a cliff, or even your own backyard, packing with intention makes the day smoother and more enjoyable. Here’s a comprehensive elopement packing list, tailored for Ontario’s ever-changing weather and wild beauty.
Essentials (Don’t Leave Home Without These)
These are the absolute must-haves. Double check these before you head out the door.
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Marriage licence
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Valid photo ID for both partners
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Wedding rings
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Cell phone (fully charged)
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Portable phone charger
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Printed directions or offline maps (cell service can be spotty)
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Wallet with ID and cash (some vendors may not accept cards)
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Vows (printed or written down)
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Any necessary permits (for photography or park entry)
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Flowers (bouquet, boutonnière, flower crown, or dried keepsakes)
Clothing and Accessories
Dress for the location and the weather. Trust me—white satin and forest trails don’t always mix. I’ve watched countless white shoes turn brown and hems gather half the trail. Plan for comfort as much as style.
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Your wedding attire
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Comfortable shoes or hiking boots (and an extra pair of socks)
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Outerwear: shawl, jacket, or wrap
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Gloves, hat, or earmuffs (in cooler weather)
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Raincoat or clear umbrella
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Sunglasses
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Hair ties or pins (especially for windy spots)
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Safety pins or small sewing kit (for quick fixes)
Beauty and Touch-Ups
If you're doing your own hair or makeup, or just want to stay fresh for photos, these come in handy.
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Compact mirror
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Lip balm or lipstick
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Tissues
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Hairbrush or comb
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Setting spray or powder
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Deodorant
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Makeup wipes
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Nail clippers or nail file
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Perfume or cologne (travel size)
Ceremony Add-Ons
Optional items to personalize your ceremony.
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Personal vows
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Blanket or rug to stand/sit on
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Small speaker or phone playlist for music
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Champagne or celebratory drink
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Glasses or mugs
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Lightweight tripod or stand (if you’re taking your own photos or video)
Food and Water
Even short elopements can be physically demanding—especially outdoors. A little sustenance goes a long way.
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Bottled water or reusable water bottle
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Light snacks (granola bars, fruit, trail mix)
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Picnic basket or cooler with drinks
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Cake or baked treats (many bakeries offer mini versions)
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Napkins, utensils, bottle opener
Emergency Items and Extras
You probably won’t need these—but if you do, you’ll be glad you brought them.
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First aid kit (just the basics)
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Bug spray and sunscreen
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Safety pins
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Lint roller
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Bandaids or blister pads
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Pocket knife or scissors
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Lighter or matches (especially for candles or a celebratory fire)
For the Photographer and Vendors
If you’ve hired vendors, make things easier for everyone.
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Timeline or itinerary
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Contact numbers for photographer and officiant
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Vendor payments or envelopes with tips
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Shot list or photo inspiration (if using a photographer)
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Thank-you notes (optional but thoughtful)
Keepsake & After-Ceremony
A few extras to make the moment last.
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Journal or notebook to write about the day
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Polaroid camera for instant photos
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Box or bag to keep mementos (vow booklets, dried flowers, etc.)
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Small cooler if you're transporting a cake or floral pieces
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Travel bag or backpack for everything you’re carrying
A Final Tip
Weather in Ontario can shift in an instant. I’ve seen sun, rain, wind, and snow all in one day—sometimes within the same hour. Being prepared doesn’t make the moment less romantic; it frees you up to focus on what really matters.
If you’re still looking for flowers, I offer dried wedding bouquets that are light, packable, and made to last. Perfect for adventures.